Nursemaid's Elbow...what a nightmare!

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You're having a good time playing with your toddler one evening. You're just sitting down while your toddler sat on your lap facing you. You're holding his arm while you both shared laughter because you're playing "Where does this kiss land?" (your planting kisses on your tot's body parts) . Then suddenly, your tot screamed and cried painfully! He can't move his other arm and keep holding it against his body. As far as you know, you're just playing ...he hasn't fallen or twisted his arm. What's going on? 

This is exactly what happened to us. A year ago, the same thing happened to Hyzyd while playing with his dad - swung by the wrists while playing but after an hour he was fine and can move his affected arm. But this time, it was different. He cried furiously every time you move him . He's really in pain! It's a sleepless night for us!

We went to Rajyindee Hospital the following day (after my Summer English class) and see an orthopedic doctor. When I mentioned about our play (I remembered that he suddenly pulled away from me to avoid my ticklish kiss)  , the doctor told us that there's a good chance he has a pulled or slipped elbow, also called nursemaid's elbow. It's a fairly common mishap for children under age 4 or 5. Nursemaid's elbow occurs when the ligament that goes around the top of the radius bone in his arm slips off. If that's the case, your child may cry and hold his elbow bent against his tummy. His elbow won't look distorted, and it may or may not continue to hurt, but he'll probably protect it and refuse to move it.
The photo shows exactly what the doctor did to Hyzyd to treat the pulled elbow. (photo credit: MedScape Reference)

The doctor decided  that Hyzyd has nursemaid's elbow — based on the exam and how the symptoms came on — he manipulated his arm in a specific way to put the ligament back into place. The doctor did this quickly and easily, and Hyzyd was uncomfortable for only a moment. Afterward , my tot was  able to use his arm normally. We're given ibuprofen to ease any swelling and pain. Thanks be to God, Hyzyd's back to himself and there's no any trace of pain on his arm.
The next time we play, I must remind myself not to do things that might cause nursemaid elbow especially during our playtime. It may not have been anything out of the ordinary. Sometimes young children get nursemaid's elbow if they're grabbed or jerked by the wrist, picked up by one arm, or swung by the wrists while playing. It can also happen if your toddler suddenly pulls away from you or drops to the ground while you're holding his hand or arm, or if you lift him by one arm onto a curb or step.

While you may not be able to completely avoid activities that can cause nursemaid's elbow, you'll reduce the chances of it if you avoid jerking or pulling on your toddler's arms or wrists and take care to lift him from under his arms rather than by his arms.


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Hyzyd's Update : February 2011

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I discovered that Hyzyd doesn't like icecream on stick and lollipop. He just stick his tongue out, lick them a bit and let the ice cream melt and if someone gives him lollipop, one lick is enough for him. He's not a sweet tooth? I don't think so because he likes chocolate...preferably Toblerone.


Yesterday was remarkable for Hyzyd. He finally figure out how to ride on a swing! His joyful shriek is hilarious and contagious!



Got angry with him last night and you know how he made me cool down? He told me to be happy! You're right son!!!

Healthy ways to cope with the pain of losing someone

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There's time for everything. Time to live and time to die. All of us will deal with personal loss. Though for us Christians we hold on to God's word in Philippians 1:21 that living means living for Christ, and dying is even better, we usually have to let ourselves hurt to heal. Here's help I gleaned from Seventeen magazine to help us sort through all of those feelings:

What to  expect

1. That day. There's no "right" way to feel when you get such bad news- you may suddenly sob, but you may also feel shock or numbness. This is exactly what I felt when I heard that my uncle died, tsunami hit Japan and the flash flood in Cagayan de Oro. It takes some people a little longer to process a death, and that's okay. If you need help planning a funeral, don't hesitate to accept help from friends who offered their services. It's not easy to handle funeral when someone you cherish just lost. 

2. The funeral.  You're hurting-and so everyone around you at the funeral. But when you're all together , honoring the person you lost and allowing yourself to experience all the painful emotions, it actually begins the process that will ultimately make things better.

3. The weeks that follow. You may already feel mostly healed, but for others it take longer. You may not be able to concentrate in class. You may flip out on friends for no reasons. You might even have physical symptoms , like shortness of breath or trouble sleeping . Anger, confusion, resentment of those who aren't suffering like you are- it's all normal, so be patient with yourself and with others at this stage.

4. A few months later. Most people miss the person terribly, but the crushing grief symptoms start to let up. So if you're still distracted by your loss on a daily basis, it may be time to talk to a counselor, who can help you figure out ways to go on living without feeling guilty about it.

5. The future. Even though you've moved on, you'll still be hit with a flash of grief every now and again. When that happens, give yourself time to look at photos or listen to music and cry-and ignore people who say, "You should be over it by now," because that's just not true.


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Where is Sock Monkey?

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Before I buy gold bars online from Golden Eagle, I got to have this cutesy sock monkey:

Where is Sock Monkey by Cardinal Industries is only $15. It's perfect for ages 3 and up.

Kids can channel their inner detectives while searching for this game's charming little stuffed monkey. One player hides the critter somewhere in the house, then the others take turns flipping over tiles that either elicit a clue from the hider (Is Sock Monkey in a room with a fridge?) or tell them to look for it until the sand timer runs out.

Product Features

  • Sock monkey is included
  • Sure to become a classic for you family game night
  • Clue cards help you find the sock monkey
  • Fun for kids of all ages
  • Kids will have lots of fun with their friends

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My Valentine's Gifts

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A cuddly Doraemon stuff toy, three fresh red roses and a very cute delivery boy on Valentine's night. What a beautiful Valentine's gifts I got!


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